My Own Story

How much of my “own” story is my family and tribal story? I fought against much of what I perceived as the narrowness of my upbringing, and yet it was that upbringing that gave me the strength and self-confidence to forge a new sense of self.

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Haunted

My friend, an avid photographer, suggested we visit the ruins of the Brooksbrae Brick Factory to take pictures. Located in the New Jersey Pine Barrens, the ruins have become a well-known spot for graffiti artists.

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Start Fixing it Now.

I recently got my heating and cooling usage report for September. I had five hours of additional heating compared to last year and four hours of additional cooling.

September in the Berkshires is a month when I do not expect to use heating or cooling.

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Butt in Chair

Every successful writer offers some variation of this piece of advice from Anne Lamott:

How to write: Butt in chair. Start each day anywhere. Let yourself do it badly. Just take one passage at a time. Get butt back in chair.

This my work chair, without my butt in it, because lately it’s been empty a lot.

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A Glimpse of the Divine

One of the things I love about the prayer books my congregation uses for weekly and High Holy Day services are the alternative readings that are provided. They can be read instead of or in addition to the standard liturgy. Last week, during Yom Kippur, under the heading “The Gift of Awe,” I came across a page of sayings about nature

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Summer's End

This morning I sat on my front porch listening to the insistent buzzing of the bees, drinking greedily from the turtleheads, the late blooming flowers that signal the end of summer in my garden.

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"Americ(na) To Me."

Tomorrow is July 4th. A day for flags, parades, barbeques, and fireworks. A day to celebrate the Declaration of Independence and the founding of the United States of America. A day I have been anticipating with anger and despair.

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